tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post1846972110916561983..comments2023-06-27T10:38:09.174-05:00Comments on A Journey...: Anger and Empowerment - revisedEmpowering Solutionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11438601114644988521noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-35614270701016020832010-06-15T14:31:41.714-05:002010-06-15T14:31:41.714-05:00"In solitude the mind gains strength and lear..."In solitude the mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself." Laurence Sterne<br /><br />Thank you for sharing that quote:)<br /><br />It was hard learning to depend on and see myself as my source M.D....but I knew that if I could learn to be "ok" by myself...then and only then would my relationships...and life...change and become not the "dream" or "fantasy" that I worked to exhaustion trying to create every day - but a life that I was "living" and living in that peace instead of the faux fulfillment I had searched for in the cars, home, right partner, better/different/more than...etc etc<br /><br />It was the best decision I ever made and the journey just keeps getting better and better!<br /><br />Great to see you here today...thanks for commenting...:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14912871715015255464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-9678171699562333982010-06-15T12:31:35.129-05:002010-06-15T12:31:35.129-05:00The eternal battle of being a social being whilst ...The eternal battle of being a social being whilst being content being alone. Finding peace and serenity within your aloneness and not depending on anyone else to satisfy your basic needs. I have the awareness of the shift that needs to take place, but am seeking the strength to look inward, love and trust what I see, and make myself happy. The journey is a long one, and sometimes I am full of despair and just want to run away...but I need to learn to run away to within, and find peace there. Great post. It's such a fundamental aspect of humanity that is often overlooked. "In solitude the mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself." Laurence Sterne@MyDysfunctionsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-9360383585393378442010-06-15T10:31:49.108-05:002010-06-15T10:31:49.108-05:00Thanks Kristin for you generous comment:) And yes,...Thanks Kristin for you generous comment:) And yes, I will continue to write. I knew when I "woke up" from the drug induced stupor I'd been in all those years that I was entering a process that if I could capture it would be valuable one day and perhaps help others.<br /><br />Stay tuned...:) I appreciate your support:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14912871715015255464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-19551709813479191552010-06-15T09:29:13.939-05:002010-06-15T09:29:13.939-05:00I am in awe of your awareness level! It takes a co...I am in awe of your awareness level! It takes a controlled and committed person to follow through on this. I can't imagine my daughter stopping mid-ragelet and reconsidering her intentions. <br />"OH, wait! What am I mad at? Maybe it is not you.." Or the dress that suddenly doesn't fit, or the call that didn't come." Usually, she does what it sounds like you have done in the past and looked for her reactions somewhere outside herself.<br />Keep writing. I am trying very hard to see where the shift takes place. HOW it takes place. What would be required of my daughter to find the growing peace that you are discovering?<br />xx krisKristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17383541747197866087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-67155899895909785862010-06-14T22:37:36.042-05:002010-06-14T22:37:36.042-05:00Ps...your therapist sounds like a gem:)Ps...your therapist sounds like a gem:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14912871715015255464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-84927036290849032022010-06-14T22:36:36.030-05:002010-06-14T22:36:36.030-05:00S...you always can make me smile! I'm glad you...S...you always can make me smile! I'm glad you dropped by today!<br /><br />"Ragelets"...and interesting term - and a useful one I think. I do "get what you're saying - and it did get easier to use those flashes of irritability to identify when I was expecting someone to "fix" me....in fact I can remember one instance where I said "ok, so now you know whats wrong with me...so fix it"...<br /><br />if only it was that easy:)<br /><br />I so enjoyed your comment!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14912871715015255464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-67568470327004172402010-06-14T20:46:52.900-05:002010-06-14T20:46:52.900-05:00I was just talking about empowerment today. Fixing...I was just talking about empowerment today. Fixing me from what's inside. As my therapist says "I can't save your ass". Looking for a Savior seemed natural as a counterbalance to my perps. I haven't really looked at rage as an indicator emotion, though. I will have to pay attention here as there have been some minor ragelets of late. Makes total sense. Wise zebra ;)Splinteredonesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-52505087347506908072010-06-14T15:40:21.168-05:002010-06-14T15:40:21.168-05:00Hi Kayley! Yes; thats a big one that makes the dif...Hi Kayley! Yes; thats a big one that makes the difference in our outcome; can we feel the feelings and are we willing to learn how to be aware of and choose different thougts!<br /><br />Great to see you here! Thanks for dropping by:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14912871715015255464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5418296591871311209.post-12025751271512694962010-06-14T13:39:06.366-05:002010-06-14T13:39:06.366-05:00I love your comment about looking inward instead o...I love your comment about looking inward instead of outward to find solutions. I used to blame things that had happened to me. Now I am learning that my thoughts control my emotions, and only I have the power to change that. Love your blog!Anxious Kaleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12314419984450829436noreply@blogger.com